Saturday, May 12, 2018

21 Things I've Learned In 21 Years

One more week and goodbye 21, hello 22 na. That's why here's the things na natutunan ko as a 21-year-old. This post is inspired by a post na nakita ko sa Odessey. 


1. Learn to be brave. 
Learn to pick yourself up when you fall. Walang masama umiyak as long as kaya mong punasan yung sarili mong luha and face the world with a smile on your face. Be brave enough to acknowledge your pain. 


2. Yourself is your biggest enemy.
Yourself is your biggest nemesis, sometimes you feel like the world is pressuring you but the truth is it's just you na naglalagay ng pressure sa sarili mo kasi sobrang taas ng expectations mo sa sarili mo. 


3. Family is everything.
They will be your no.1 supporter, your loudest cheer leaders and they will be the first to pick you up when you're falling apart. 


4. Strong support system is important. 
You need someone who could love you when you're at your worst. Someone who could support you no matter how hard the situation is. 


5. Taking a break is not a crime.
Disconnecting your self from everything is not a crime, it's an act of self love and self care. You are allowed to stop and rest for a while.


6. Forgive and Forget.
Learn to forgive those people na nakasakit sayo and try to forget the pain na nadala nila sayo. It's not easy but hey baby steps, right?


7. Get out of your comfort zone.
Try new things and experience new adventures. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, consider it as a lesson. 


8. Meet new people.
It doesn't matter if they are temporary or permanent, ang mahalaga nakilala mo sila, for sure naman na kahit papaano may matututunan ka sa kanila. 


9. Looks can be deceiving.
Sabi nga nila don't judge a book by it's cover, and I guess that's true. Hanggat hindi mo nakakausap ng maayos ang isang tao you'll never know kung ano talaga sila.


10. Ghosting is a thing.
Sobrang funny nito pero sobrang totoo din. Nagawa ko na 'to dati pero never ko naisip na ganon yung effect so sorry people. Pero, ayun na nga na-experience ko 'to ngayon and wews, ang sarap mambarang. Jk.


11. Friends can break your heart too.
This is the saddest thing na kailangan ko matutunan. There are people who could put your friendship to waste ng walang pagdadalawang isip. I'm not a perfect friend but I know how to be honest. 


12. Pain is Inevitable.
Kahit gaano kataas na wall pa yung ilagay mo sayo para hindi ka masaktan, makakagawa parin ng paraan yung pain para makapasok sa buhay mo, you need to accept it and just move on. 

13. Graduating from college is just a start.
Akala mo tapos na? Love, let me tell you this, that diploma is nothing sa real world, sure it could help pero what you really need is a lot of courage, confidence and diskarte. 

14. Find your passion.
If you don't know your passion or what you really love to do you will end up confused and lost. So, find your passion then your purpose.

15. Being alone is different from being lonely.
Ganito lang yan, if you're alone, ibig sabihin physically. But, if you're lonely you could feel it in your bones, veins and buong pagkatao mo. 

16. Alcohol is not the answer.
LOL! Yes it could help you to escape for awhile pero after mo sumuka't magka-hangover, mas malaking problema meron ka. Masarap uminom pag masaya, hindi pag gustong tumakas.

17. Do more of what makes you happy.
Gawin mo yung ikakasaya mo, kung saan ka mag ggrow as a person, mahirap maipit sa sitwasyon na hindi mo gusto, you'll feel suffocated and mabigat sa loob so as much as possible try to do things that you personally want to do. 

18. Don't be a people pleaser. 
Kahit anong gawin mo people will say something about you. Gumawa ka man ng maganda o hindi, meron at meron kang maririnig so mas maganda na stop asking for their approvals, stop asking for validation.

19. Acknowledge your problems.
Walang masama kung aaminin at haharapin mo yung problema mo, mas maaga mong haharapin ang lahat mas maaga mo din magagawan ng paraan at solusyon. Hindi kahinaan yung pag acknowledge na may problema ka.

20. Never underestimate the power of prayer.
Always believe na merong nakikinig lagi sayo, always say a little prayer and for sure na merong makakarinig sa mga dasal mo. Hindi mahalaga kung anong religion ang pinaniniwalaan mo, as long as naniniwala ka at may faith ka. 

21. Giving up is not an option. 
Nope it's not an option. Walang ganon, hanggat kaya mong bumangon o hangga't kaya mong iangat yung sarili mo mag try ka lang ng magtry, life is not a race, so hanggat may oras ka, gawin mo lahat ng paraan para maka survive. 

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